Danielle
I have never been told that
I shouldn't risk getting pregnant. I was 6 months pregnant with my first daughter
when everything went wrong. I went into labor, my b/p skyrocketd, and I eventually
started to bleed out.
I was rushed to the ER around 6 am and had a completely
heartless labor and delivery staff. I was at that hospital plenty of times
before complaining about various things and they blew me off as an over reacting
young first time mom. I was 19.
So they looked at me and just said "yup,
no heartbeat" Like I shouldn't have her because I was so young. Luckily,
I was so out of it from the loss of blood that it didn't hit me until later.
I went on for another 6 hours of labor and finally delivered my little girl,
Skylar. I continued to fight for my life as test after test was ran. My kidneys
also shut down in the process.
Finally, one of the doctors came to me and told me I had 3 genetic blood clotting
conditions. Factor V leiden, MTHFR, and prothrombin gene mutation. After 2
weeks I was released from the hospital and continued dialysis for 3 more months.
Once I finished dialysis, I immediately got pregnant again and instantly started
to miscarry.
I eventually found a well known high risk OB to work with my
hematologist. They stayed in close contact, calling each other after all of
my visits.
In april of 06.. I was pregnant again. I had my complications.
Contractions starting at 6 months, bedrest, the lovenox, and my b/p again.
But with those to amazing doctors working together I was able to have my beautiful
daughter, Lessa. Not once did any doctor tell me not to risk it. I was told
there was a chance it could happen again and I could pass it out. They told
me to sit down and think about it and ask myself if I can handle it if it
happens again. My first question, laying in the hospital was, can I ever have
kids.
My hematologist instantly said said "Oh yes! As long as we have
the right medication and monitor you closely I see absolutely no problem with
it" I'm not saying it would always work out and everyone is different..
But it is extremely possible.